You are still ready to go every night, but she’s not. You feel like you rarely have sex anymore, and when you do it feels like she’s doing you a favor. Find out how she is feeling, her insecurities, fears, and struggles. Even when she returns to her pre-kid body, I guarantee she’s still comparing–desperate for affirmation. Tell her she’s sexy and why—particularly when she makes a negative comment about herself.
With her dress off she leaned back to him and again lifted her leg, showing me her pussy. I felt half frozen and have no idea how long I just stood there before I heard Eric say “taste her”….
You may have talked with her about daily logistics or superficial things. Studies show that over the course of a relationship, a woman’s desire for sex decreases while her desire for tenderness increases.
“Clear the mechanism.” Her body has changed since having kids.
Those two experiences were me exploring curiosities I had at the time and they convinced me that I had no real interest in having one on one sex with another man.
But since then I have fantasized very much about having a three-way with a bi-man and a woman.