) No, I'm not making any of these ridiculous suggestions up. Paula Patton, basking in the glow of his wife's sucess in landing a role in Mission Impossible and he get's to popping off at the mouth about why Black women are single. These parasitic Black folk will tell you that you need to obtain someone eles's hair, contact lenses, ridiculously expensive purses and shoes and most important a man.... And if you don't have those things, then something must be wrong with YOU! There's a whole LOT of reasons why Black women are single. Reason number 1- Black women keep waiting around for Black men in their social circle to catch up with them. They'll put Kim Kardashian on the over before you make the cover.ESSENCE corners him and makes him make a blood oath in support of Black MEN by implicating that the reason Black women are single is because we're a bunch of selfish, mulish shrews. If everybody around you is "SANGLE" and you don't want to be "SANGLE" you might want to bounce. Let me first say, Halima you are on point with this article. The fact that they put Reggie Bush on the valentines day 2010 cover baffles me still.After signifying that he just LUUUUUUUVS Black women, he let's ESSENCE force him to take a blood oath that our singleness is NOT the fault of Black men. There are so many good Black men out there that are hardworking, decent, and handsome, you know? (Laughs) Good luck finding a good White man who understands your journey. I’ve got 20 Black male friends, who are all good men who take good care of their wives, and good care of their children. Maybe the women have to take better care of their men. Reason Number 2- Black women keep worrying about what other Black people are going to think about their marriage and dating choices. They don't take a freaking survey when they bring a girl home to Mama. But NOT if you listen to the women who run ESSENCE magazine or idiots like Robin Thicke. With that said I am glad that you brought this topic up.
Money quote: The researchers found that most women speed daters said yes (meaning they’d like to see a man again after the four-minute speed date) less often to men of another race than they did to men of their own race." Every month, they feature Black bachelors that are just waiting to marry we Black she Devils if only we would repent from out wicked wicked waaaaaays! Paula Patton), In a recent interview with MESSENCE magazine, you reportedly implied that Black men walked on water and while Black women needed to make some changes in order to catch-a-man before we die old-and-alone-to-be-eaten-alive-by-nine-cats. Many of these messages will come from other Black people.If only we would lower ourselves to go trolling for men in strip clubs, and prisons and the county clinic (afterall, what a few STIs between friends? In particular, you said "Maybe the women have to take better care of their men. Unfortunately they will come from other Black women like those at ESSENCE. EVAH gon' put you on the cover of ESSENCE magazine.You know you were fascinated with that list, don’t lie.And because we love being in everyone’s business when it comes to their love lives, we’re back with even more entertaining evaluations of Hollywood love affairs, but this time, taking a look at our favorite black female celebrities that date, dump, marry, mess with and love them some white men.Let’s be clear, that was in no means something to make black women think we need nor have to have validation from white men, so please calm that talk all the way down dears.